Mistakes law students make Once upon a time, there was a bright, ambitious and hard working law student.  She wanted to be an extraordinary lawyer.  Her parents invested heavily in her career, sending her to an expensive law school.  She believed by the time she graduates she will get a job that will be worth all the hard work, the exams, the bank loans and mortgage, 5 years of living away from the family and sleepless nights spent writing projects or reading case law and statutes. (My thoughts: "Well, from experience, it's not easy but an interesting journey I must say")    mute She first encountered a hitch when she began to apply for internships.  Internships are very important, so she heard. But as she wrote emails after emails to tons of places, she got no replies. The placement and recruitment committee sometimes got her an internship or two, but they turned out to be lame. (My thoughts: " Well, that's true, but in my case I had oppor

*MARRIAGE IS LIKE A SHOE*  MARRIAGE is like a shoe. When you wear oversize be ready to drag it along through out life, and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the pains through out life." One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is.  click That is why I thought it necessary to write you this letter. Dear Singles, When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things: PHYSICAL APPEARANCE     Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that aligns with your values and beliefs, the one who you meet at your life's journey. It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife or a husband. inspire  

1. WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE   Whatever will be will not be; you have to make it be. You have a part to play in what will be in your life, so don't leave it to chance.  click and read 2. HALF BREAD IS BETTER THAN NONE  Why settle for half bread when you can get a full bread or even own a bakery. This is a limiting belief that positions you to settle for less and it is a mediocre philosophy.  https://www.justychidd.com/2018/07/letting-go.html 3. A FOOL AT FORTY IS A FOOL FOREVER  A fool at any age can be a fool forever if he refuses to let go of his foolishness. It is never too late to become wise because the day you wake up and wise up is the day you CHANGE!  Dads 4. ALL FINGERS ARE NOT EQUAL Yes! Physical fingers in your hands are not equal but that does not make any of them valueless financially, and you realise that they are all valuable. You are not even a finger, so why look down on yourself.  New start 5. LIFE BEGINS AT FORTY ```If you are below for

No matter who you are, how experienced you are and how knowledgeable you think you are, always delay judgment.  Mute2 Give others the privilege to explain themselves. What you see may not be the reality and Never conclude for others. Which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge others without understanding them first.  Mute1 Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they are loaded but because they value friendship above money. Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they are stupid but because they understand the concept of responsibility. Those who apologize first after a fight, do so not because they are wrong but because they value the people around them.   Anniversary Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe you anything but because they see you as a true friend. Those who often text you, do so not because they have nothing better to do but because you are in their heart.  Those who take out ti

GIVE. SAVE little spending👀 If you have a daughter, girlfriend or a sister who's grown, always check on them. Give them money now and then to buy pads, underwears, and maybe toiletries. Females sometimes would never ask for these things from us, but they genuinely need them. They might ask from the wrong persons.   make your choice If you have friends/relations who are students, call them sometimes, check on them. If you have #500 or #1000  give them. Life as a student sometimes gets really tough. Your kind gestures to them goes a long way in helping them keep to a positive line.    who you are looking for Men, if you have friends who are currently jobless, call them sometimes in solidarity. When going for a hair cut or shave sometimes, make them come along to get a hair cut or shaved too, while you pay. When recharging your phone, do recharge theirs too.  It may be nothing to you but sure means a lot to a jobless or poor fellow. Their ego wouldn't allow them to as