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Perfection
 Everyone you marry has a weakness. 
Only God have no weakness. 
So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best of them.
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History
Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. 
When you get married or you want to get married, then stop digging into their past. Unless you both decide to do so. But what matters most is the present life of your partner, "the now and forever". "Old things are passed away". Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.
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Challenges
Every marriage has its challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for eachother. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in truth and love. Remember the vows " For better for worse"." In sickness and in health", be there.
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Growth
Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with anyone else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, you two should work together and with time everything will fall in it's place. Mute2


War zone
To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
 Ignorance
 Prayerlessness
 Unforgiveness
 Third-party influence
 Stinginess
 Stubbornness
 Lack of love
 Rudeness
 Laziness
 Disrespect
 Cheating
 Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.
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Conscious
There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready-made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. 
If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

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Adapt and Alert 
Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future.  Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.
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Partnership 
Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent but a partnership between two adult. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Learn, grow with each other, listen and assist each other.


Quid pro quo 
Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.      Love?

 *So today let us pray for our marriages. Send to those you care about because you never know who you may be helping. May God bless you all.

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